
Rich Gittings
Published Dec 20, 2024
Updated Apr 9, 2026

Divorce is difficult, even under the best circumstances. Beyond the emotional challenges, there are practical logistical questions to consider, like how the separating couple should divide marital assets.
If you are going through a separation or divorce and beginning this process, don't worry. We are here to help. If you're at the very beginning, our guide to getting a divorce in North Carolina covers filing requirements, timelines, and what to expect. This post walks you through property division step by step so you can understand what's at stake and set yourself up for success.
In North Carolina, the process of dividing marital property is called “equitable distribution.” It is important to note that dividing the assets fairly does not necessarily mean dividing them equally. Equitable distribution generally aims to divide your assets in a way that is fair. In some cases, the Court may determine that an unequal distribution is more equitable. This allows for flexibility to help ensure the most just outcome possible.
First, it is important to understand the two types of property that we will be looking at during this process:
Understanding these categories is key to knowing what’s up for division—and what’s not.
So, first, we need to determine what is considered “marital property” and what property belongs to each party individually.
The first step in the equitable distribution process is to determine whether you or your spouse have a prenuptial agreement. A valid prenuptial agreement can establish clear guidelines for dividing property, saving time and reducing potential conflicts.
Prenuptial agreements can:
If no prenuptial agreement exists—or if the agreement doesn’t address all areas of property division—North Carolina’s equitable distribution laws will guide the process. This means the court will step in to ensure a fair division of marital property and debts, following a structured process that begins with identifying and categorizing assets.
If your prenuptial agreement doesn’t cover all assets—or if you don’t have one—the next step in equitable distribution is determining what property is marital and what is separate. This distinction is crucial because only marital property is subject to division under North Carolina law.
Marital property includes assets and debts acquired by either spouse during the marriage, such as:
Separate property generally refers to assets owned by one spouse before the marriage or acquired individually during the marriage, such as:
Determining whether an asset is marital or separate often requires a detailed review of:
If you’re unsure about how to classify specific assets, schedule a consultation and we’ll have one of our family law attorneys help you through this process. Misclassifying property can lead to costly disputes and even litigation, so it is best to get things right from the beginning.
Once your assets are categorized, the process moves to assigning values and dividing marital property equitably. Even if you and your spouse disagree on the classification of some items, understanding the basics of marital and separate property is a key step in moving forward.
After identifying and categorizing all property, the next step in the equitable distribution process is to assign a value to each marital asset.
Valuing property correctly ensures a fair division of assets. Inaccurate or incomplete valuations can lead to costly and time consuming litigation if a dispute arises..
Once all marital property is valued, the focus shifts to dividing these assets equitably. The court or both parties will evaluate several factors to determine what’s fair.
Going through a divorce can feel like a tug-of-war, but there are steps you can take to protect your interests:
If you are in the process of separating or have recently been notified that your spouse has filed for divorce, it’s essential to know that you must file for equitable distribution (ED) if you want to divide marital assets. Filing for divorce alone does not automatically trigger the division of property.
If you file for divorce first, be sure to request equitable distribution early in the process. If you’ve been notified that your spouse has already filed, it’s important to act quickly and file your request for ED to protect your rights. Once the divorce is finalized, your ability to claim property distribution is generally lost, so timely action is crucial.
Before filing for divorce, create a detailed list of all your assets and debts. Include:
Hiding assets or running up debts before the divorce is finalized can backfire. North Carolina courts take economic misconduct seriously and may penalize anyone who tries to cheat the system.
Any divorce is difficult. Disagreements are natural, but your financial future is at stake. It is important to get things right, including how to divide. You don’t have to do this alone. At North Carolina Legal Services, we’ll help you protect your rights, avoid costly mistakes, and set yourself up for success in the next chapter of your life.
Contact us today to schedule a consultation and start moving forward with your case. Let us handle the complexities, so you can focus on what matters most. Learn more about our family law services and how we can help you through this process.
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